What Does It Mean To Be Human?

What does it mean to be human?

For ages, people have been asking this question with books, plays, music, and films.


I wrote a short poem about this very topic.

Why do we cry when we’re helpless?

Why don’t we show love more often?

Why does a loss make us care more?

Why are we so in a hurry?

Why does a brush with death illuminate the value of life?

Why do we fear pain when pain is part of existence?

Why do we feel regret when every mistake is a wisdom?

Why do we live in the past when all that is there is the present?

Why do we dream of our future instead of making it happen?

Why are there so many questions?

Why is there no one right answer…?

Why are we always searching?

Why are we born to be human?


You might enjoy this related post from my Instagram account that further explores this topic:

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That Bottomless Well

Prologue: Poetry is not a luxury. It is a salve for your soul.


Just when you thought the last tear was finally shed, your soul sources more from that bottomless well. You stop drinking water and tea to prevent the wetness in your eyes, but the bottomless well is not sourced from your tea and your water.

That bottomless well lies deep in your soul. Its waters are dark and still, asleep until just the right moment. And when the right moment comes, the floodgates open and the tears fall.

That bottomless well is not sourced from your tea and your water. Rather, it collects all your past mistakes, all your regrets and your sorrows and pains. It adds a pinch of salt and a hint of redemption, and a tear is born.

It is beautiful, the newborn tear. It is clear and fragile, like a delicate flower. It cleanses your soul and lifts up some weight from your shoulders. It lets you breathe. It lets you live.

For as long as the tears keep coming from that bottomless well, you know you’re alive.


Epilogue: The Science of Tears

Why do we cry? According to Time Magazine, theories about the purpose of tears have been flourishing since at least 1,500 B.C. But one thing is becoming more clear with new research: tears trigger social bonding and human connection. We cry because we are human. We cry because we’re alive.

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The Moon and You

The Blue Supermoon of 2023

Last night, the people of this world experienced one of the rarest astronomical events – a blue supermoon. Throughout centuries, people have been discovering that the supermoons affect them in various ways. Read on to find out three steps you can take to ensure you’re taking full advantage of this supermoon cycle.

Photo by KT on Unsplash

Step 1: Observe Your Feelings

The first step we have to take when a supermoon is approaching is to notice how we’re feeling. People are often so busy in their everyday lives that they don’t quite know how they feel. Find a quiet space at the end of the day on the eve of the supermoon to reflect on what’s been happening in your life in the past few weeks and how you’ve been feeling.

Step 2: Take Stock of What You’ve Done

The second step to take on the eve of the supermoon is to take stock of all the wonderful accomplishments you’ve been able to achieve in the last two weeks. These accomplishments don’t have to be work-related: perhaps you helped your children with homework or were extra courteous to your colleagues at work. Write down any small or large thing that makes you feel proud.

Step 3: Celebrate

The supermoon is the time when the moon reaches its fullest size and is the closest to Earth. This is the time for celebrating all the things you’ve been able to accomplish in the last two weeks since the moon has grown. On the night of the supermoon, find a quiet space where you can be alone. Get comfortable, light a candle, and read all the accomplishments you’ve written down the night before out loud. Then, take a moment to set an intention for yourself for the next few weeks of your life (until the moon diminishes in size and disappears from the sky completely). This is your chance to live those two weeks until the new moon fully present for all the miracles of life.

Rediscovering The Magic of Chicago

I’ve lived in this city for six years, but for most of this time, I’ve been focused elsewhere. Always on the go, I’d only come back to Chicago to rest my tired feet. What joy, then, it is to rediscover the magic of Chicago: its streets, its lights, and rhythms, and its people.

Thanks to the Illinois Media School, I’m out on these streets again, with a camcorder in hand, noticing, and paying attention.

I can’t wait to get to know you better Chicago 😉

To Be Human

Why do we cry when we’re helpless?

Why don’t we show love more often?

Why does a loss make us care more?

Why are we so in a hurry?

Why does a brush with death illuminate the value of life?

Why do we fear pain when pain is part of existence?

Why do we feel regret when every mistake is a wisdom?

Why do we live in the past when all that is there is the present?

Why do we dream of our future instead of making it happen?

Why are there so many questions?

Why is there no one right answer…?

Why are we always searching?

Why are we born to be human?

That Bottomless Well

Just when you thought the last tear was finally shed, your soul sources more from that bottomless well. You stop drinking water and tea to prevent the wetness in your eyes, but the bottomless well is not sourced from your tea and your water.

That bottomless well lies deep in your soul. Its waters are dark and still, asleep until just the right moment. And when the right moment comes, the floodgates open and the tears fall.

That bottomless well is not sourced from your tea and your water. Rather, it collects all your past mistakes, all your regrets and your sorrows and pains. It adds a pinch of salt and a hint of redemption, and a tear is born.

It is beautiful, the newborn tear. It is clear and fragile, like a delicate flower. It cleanses your soul and lifts up some weight from your shoulders. It lets you breathe. It lets you live.

For as long as the tears keep coming from that bottomless well, you know you’re alive.

The Black Cat Strikes Again

She did it again. The black cat has stricken. She finally caught her victim, but this kill was very different from all the countless kills before.

She had a difficult time chasing after this one. He was unpredictable, fast, and seemed to enjoy the chase as much as she did. Sometimes she felt that it was him who was playing with her, him who was in control of this chase.

She learned his every habit. She knew what time he got up, what time he left his mouse-hole and what time he came back. She got to know his friends, his habits and his dreams.

She finally got him. He came out of his hole late one night, thinking that she would be long gone by now. He made a mistake: the black cat never slept until the chase was over. She uncoiled her long lean body into a weapon of death and jumped. It happened so fast that no one, especially not the mouse, would have noticed the flinch that passed through her face. The last thing he saw before his death was her wide blue eyes. Then it was over.

The black cat was silent. The irony of her existence was that she loved… mice. She longed for their short grey coats, their round eyes and small ears. She had the best intentions every time she met another mouse. Unfortunately, her instincts were stronger every single time. As soon as a mouse would run, the black cat would chase after him.

Chewing on a limp tail of her latest victim, she couldn’t get this annoying thought out: “If only there was a mouse out there that would be brave enough not to run…”

The Chimney Sweeper

Leon has never missed his morning ritual. Every morning for the past forty two years started the same: hot shower, two eggs over-easy, a cup of smoldering black coffee. Then a suit, the black one with grey stripes. A final look in the mirror to make sure all the buttons are buttoned, and a black hat. Then he steps outside.

Leon is a chimney sweeper. He loves his job, because seeing the dirt that comes out of a chimney and the clean scrub that follows makes him feel good. He loves being unnoticed, coming in quietly to do his job and leaving discreetly, with a clean chimney the only reminder of his visit.

He also enjoys the rhythm of his job. You see, most chimneys get dirty over the course of the day, making evening time the most appropriate for cleaning. Leon walks on the dimly lit streets toward a house in need, lost in his thoughts but acutely aware of the black smoke from chimneys he hasn’t yet visited.

An evening job leaves plenty of time for the morning. Not surprisingly, it is the time of day Leon enjoys most. The world is still clean in the morning…

Clean and naive, exactly like the day he met Her twenty years ago. He still remembers it. He was going to his first ever chimney cleaning when he spotted a yellow dress on the other side of the street. He squinted his eyes for a moment because her yellow dress shone brighter than the sun. Yes, he still remembers… Her smile, a little crooked but oh so genuine. Her light brown hair, the way it cascaded down her shoulders. And of course, her eyes. Fierce blue eyes with shards of ice in them. You could easily drown in those eyes. Willingly.

Chapter 3, where Marquis loses his bow

Sunday morning was Tam’s favorite morning of the week. Sunday morning was the time when The News of Stockholm issued its Sunday Editiona ten-page special that covered arts, events, cartoons, puzzles and such. It was delivered to Oluffsen family 8 a.m. sharp, and Tam was always standing by the front door one minute later. He had a few quiet hours to spend with the paper before the Oluffsen family woke up (nothing is sweeter than sleeping in on a lazy Sunday morning, don’t you think?), and he did not want to waste even a single minute.

This Sunday, as usual, Tam was standing by the front door at 8:01 sharp. The delivery boy just pushed the paper through the tiny door slit, and it still smelled of the street and of the fresh black ink spread across its giant pages. Tam loved this smell and would often dream of living at a press where he could watch curious pictures in papers all day long.

The paper was too heavy for Tam to bring all the way to the living room. Instead, he would spread it open on its front page and would turn page after page carefully, taking time to examine every picture, marveling at the world captured in each image.

The front page of this Sunday’s edition had a picture of the Swedish Queen smiling into the camera. Tam liked to see the Queen, because her eyes had a twinkle and she always looked like she knew what Tam was thinking. “Good morning, Your Majesty”, said Tam and carefully turned the page.

The next page had a picture of a tall tuxedoed gentleman dancing with a pretty lady in a white lace gown. The photographer captured the pair in motion, just as they were finishing their lovely waltz. The lady’s face was away from the camera, but you could guess how beautiful she was by the look in the gentleman’s eyes. Tam noticed how happy the gentleman looked, and how gallantly he wore a pretty black bow around his neck.

Tam looked at the picture for a few more minutes, then jumped up, grabbed a piece of twig that fell from a nearby broom and whirled with it in a skillful pirouette.

“Tam?!”

Tut was standing next to the paper, looking perplexed and hungry. “Are you all right Tam?” he asked. “Yes”, abashedly answered blushing Tam and followed Tut into the kitchen.

After lunch that day, when the Oluffsen family left for their afternoon walk, Tut and Tam were climbing the living room curtain to sit on the window sill and watch the tiny people on the streets below. When they reached the sill (Tam first, weary Tut few moments later), they found they were not alone – cat Marquis was already there, napping in the afternoon sun, his noble coat shining under the warm sun rays.

I must say that Marquis and our heroes had a silent agreement going something like this – “don’t trouble trouble until trouble troubles you”. They tried to stay out of each other’s ways, Tut and Tam cautious of the cat’s long sharp claws, Marquis considering dealing with our friends as petty nuisance time that he’d rather spent napping.

That is why, as soon as Tut saw Marquis stretched out on the sill, he turned around and started descending back to the living room floor. Tam, however, was standing still, his eyes glued to a pretty red velvet bow round the cat’s neck.

When Tut realized Tam was not following him, he puffed and panted his way back to the window sill, grumbling that this was the last time he was ever coming back for Tam. As soon as he saw Tam’s intense look, he realized what was about to happen.

“No, Tam! Let’s go back before he wakes up!”

“Tut, you have to help me get it! Quick!”

Tut knew that it was no use talking Tam out of trouble, for trouble and Tam were best friends. Still grumbling, Tut came up to Tam and asked: “So how are we going to get it?”

Tam smiled and pulled out the twig (his dance partner from this morning) that he carried all day tucked away under his caftan belt. He motioned Tut to follow him, tiptoed closer to unsuspecting Marquis, twisted the twig into the bow knot, and untied the knot with one crafty move.

Next thing we know, Tut grabbed the bow, Tam grabbed the twig, and our heroes scurried away and down the curtains faster than the fastest winds. Cat Marquis twisted his left ear, stirred his right whiskers, and rolled over on his other side. The sun was shining.

In their tiny den right behind the living room fireplace, Tut and Tam were reliving their great adventure. Tut was sitting cross-legged on the floor, watching Tam. Tam was waltzing with the courageous twig, red velvet bow wrapped around his caftan like a cape of a gallant prince.

Chapter 2, where Tut is drowning in milk

This morning Tut woke up earlier than usual. He stretched out and yawned in his warm cozy bed, which, if you look closely, was nothing else than an eyeglass case, furnished by cotton and soft pieces of cloth. In fact, after Tut got the new bed, dad Gustav was looking for his case that whole week. Not finding it, he went to the store and bought a new one… That’s how Tam got a warm and cozy bed too, leaving dad Gustav only shrug with a perplexed look.

But back to our story. This morning Tut woke up earlier than usual. He stretched out and yawned in his warm cozy bed, after which he immediately thought of eating something tasty. I must say that Tut and Tam lived in the living room, right behind the fireplace, but sometimes Tut wished they lived closer to the kitchen – he would not need to go that far for breakfast every morning.

Tut lay in his bed for a little longer, because it was too early to go to the kitchen – the Oluffsen family was still at home. As soon as Tut heard the front door closing, he came up to Tam’s bed and quietly started to wake Tam up. At that exact moment, Tam was dreaming about the Swedish Queen, whose picture he saw in the paper the night before. He dreamed that the Queen was smiling at him and thanking him for all the wonderful discoveries that he, pioneer and voyager Tam, had made. All of the sudden the Queen somehow spoke in Tut’s voice: “Tam, wake up! Wake up! Morning is here and it’s time for breakfast”.

Tam loved Tut very much, but this morning he wished Tut wasn’t so partial to delicious breakfasts. Tam would never know now what wonderful discoveries he, pioneer and voyager Tam, had made and he could only guess.

Grumbling a little bit on this exact matter, Tam followed Tut into the kitchen. Mom Erika was surely in a hurry this morning as the table was showing the signs of a hasty breakfast – pieces of thinly sliced rye bread huddled on a plate next to bright sunny round of Swiss cheese with holes and a small mountain of freshly picked cloudberries shadowed over a mug with milk… A mug with milk!! Milk!! Only Tut’s favorite thing in the whole wide world!! Faster than you could say “Tut and Tam”, Tut jumped on the round of cheese, hopped from the cheese to the cloudberry mound, and from there straight into the milk!

Whoosh!!

Poor Tut did not realize that the mug with milk was full to the brim! “Ta-a-a-a-a-m!” was all Tam could hear, but it was enough for him to know that Tut was in trouble – he could not swim.

Mustering all his gumption and wit, Tam searched the kitchen table for something – anything – that could help poor Tut. A breakfast bun? No, a bun wouldn’t work – it would only soak the milk in and get soft. A slice of lime? No, lime wouldn’t work – it would only drown to the bottom of the mug. Desperate, Tam was trying to remember his physics teacher Kin Kin and his lessons, during which Tam would dream of far away adventures and wonderful discoveries instead of learning the properties of milk.

At last, Tam saw a long silver spoon buried into the mountain of cloudberries. Faster than the cat Marquis chasing after the naughty mice, Tam ran to the mountain, pranced up, dug out the spoon and submerged it into the milk.

Whew!!

Just in time, as Tut’s green velvet caftan was starting to weigh poor Tut down to the bottom of the treacherous mug. Tut grabbed onto the spoon, climbed up, and sat down on the curled mug handle. He was smiling.

“That was a whole lot of milk” Tut said. He clumsily came down the handle, walked up to Tam, and gave him a milky hug. At that exact moment, Tam felt happier than the most wonderful discoverer, pioneer and voyager in the whole wide world.